How can I (f19) tell my gf (f20) that it bothers me how she did not want to be roommates, but lives in my room basically 24/7 anyways?

2021.12.01 03:40 valentinenewhannover How can I (f19) tell my gf (f20) that it bothers me how she did not want to be roommates, but lives in my room basically 24/7 anyways?

So, we both live in the dorms at the college we go to. She lives down the hall from me, not far at all. Last year, we were door neighbors on campus (neither of us had roommates then because of covid restrictions). She moved out of the dorm second semester, but we were very good friends at that point so I told her she was welcome to stay with me any time she was in town. She's from this state, so she did not live far away, but she would come down and spend days/weeks in my room at a time. We got super close during this time, and had a casual fwb thing going on (we have only been dating for 4 months now, but we have been a thing for about a year). For this year, our university announced that they were allowing roommates again provided everyone living on campus is vaccinated. I asked her if she would want to be roommates (we were only fwb at the time and it was pretty casual. We both agreed that we were best friends before anything else), but she declined and I didn't bring it up any more.
My roommate for this semester recently & permanently moved out of our shared room to transfer uni's, and I am very anxious about getting a new roommate I don't get along with. Gf knows this, but I have not asked her to be my roommate. Since my old roommate moved out, gf has basically moved in. She spent a lot of her time here before and spent a few nights (with roommates permission) here, but she never spends any time in her room anymore. I casually mentioned being roommates next semester more as a joke tonight, but she kinda shrugged it off and ignored the comment. No biggie, I'm not going to bug her about things she doesn't want to do, but it bothers me that she is so opposed to being roommates even though she spends literally all of her time in here with me. I absolutely love her and have no other issues, but this just bothers me from time to time.
When I say she spends all of her time here, I mean she's ALWAYS here. She decorates my room, cleans it regularly (I clean too, she just likes cleaning extra because it helps relieve stress for her and her room is already clean since she doesn't spend much time in there), and has reorganized my entire room probably about 5 times now (furniture too). She spends every night here, comes here in between classes, and comes here immediately after her classes get out and stays for the night. When I went out of state for thanksgiving, she spent two nights in my room while I was gone (I didn't mind and I leant her my keys). I love spending time with her, I don't want to give y'all the impression that I don't want her here or that her being here annoys me. I just don't know what the problem is. She spends all of her time living with me, I can't remember the last time she has slept in her own dorm room, but does not want to be actual roommates. If I get a new roommate next semester, she won't be able to be here as often if they're not okay with it. I want to bring this up without making it seem like I think she spends too much time with me or implying that she should switch rooms to live here. I'd like to be roommates, but I understand that she does not want to and I respect her decision. I don't want to argue or make her feel bad at all, but it's been on my mind and it really bothers me.
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