How can I be there for my boyfriend without compromising my mental health?

2021.09.24 20:58 WigglesAndSquiggles How can I be there for my boyfriend without compromising my mental health?

My boyfriend (33m) just got a job earlier this week, after being unemployed for more than 2 years. He’s thankful for the new opportunity but he really hates being there. They don’t allow him to listen to music while he’s working, and the job is really bumming him out. This means he’s constantly ranting about how much he hates his job.
Well I (26f) am also working and I hate my job as well. I’m thankful for the job I have but conditions could definitely be better. I feel depressed constantly because of my job and I rant about it sometimes, so naturally I feel like it’s my place to hear my boyfriend rant about his job too.
But the reasons we both hate our jobs are very similar, and sometimes hearing about his job triggers the same depressive feelings I get when I’m actually at work. I don’t know how much more of the ranting I’ll be able to listen to before I lose my mind. I want to be there for my boyfriend, but now I feel like crap listening to him constantly complain about his job.
How can I be there for my boyfriend without losing my sanity? My boyfriend used to be a happy distraction from the working world and now he just constantly reminds me of work. Are there any boundaries I could set without hurting his feelings? I want him to be able to come to me to rant but I don’t want to be constantly reminded of work.
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2021.09.24 20:58 2007Gyo Le mafie italiane

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2021.09.24 20:58 Dodoreference 「Blinding Lights」

Disclaimer: Keep in mind I've only watched parts 1-4. Parts 5 onward just didn't happen
Namesake: Blinding Lights by The Weeknd
Localized name: Lights of Blindness
Stand stats:
Power: A
Speed: C
Range: A
Durability: E
Precision: C
Potential: C
For appearance and abilities, you can skip the story segment. I would just like to bring something new to the table. If not…
General storyline so far: Jojo needs to find out why his grandfather Jotaro died, why his parents are sick, and why he has a stand. His stand can rewind time for him (for more details on his stand, check out the comments on my Roundabout post.)
Today's storyline:
Jordan Kujo drove back to his grandfather's house. The door was ajar, just as last night. As he came in there was nothing in his living room. Literally. His living room was completely empty. The killer couldn't have taken all of the furniture. He looked in other rooms. In the kitchen, he saw a broken chair, with a broken table next to it. He moved to the broken table, when suddenly, the chair exploded. He fell into the table, and for a split second, he saw something. A sphere with cube appendages arms and legs. It suddenly turned vice versa though, with a cube body with sphere appendages. The table also seemed to absorb it. He jumped off the table as fast as he could. The table exploded behind him and made him fall. He ran back to the living room and caught his breath. There wasn't any evidence of an explosion when he looked in the kitchen though. When the table exploded, the explosion only hurt him. Why didn't the stand just explode him first? He walked through the dining room to the kitchen. He could see them running by his feet. Then, they cubified again.
One stopped and looked at him. "You can see us? That makes our job way easier!" A voice in his head said, Jordan knowing it came from the stand. "Look, I'll just tell you my abilities, to convince you to run away while you can. We're Blinding Lights. We can hide in anything that someone thinks might lead to the killer, and will explode it. Since you see us, we can explode ourselves. We're also a hivemind. If you destroy us, we automatically explode. Even if you do survive, the evidence is gone." Jordan was concerned, but he kept his cool and told the stand "I don't care how powerful you are. I don't care whether you're god or a baby. I will go through anyone for my family, because even if I die, I damn well tried." "Have it your way." Jordan walked into the kitchen. "You have no idea what does and doesn't have his fingerprints, do you? Everything is free game!" He saw three bloody knives next to each other. But, behind them, there was one of them. It exploded, and the knives launched at him. He ran away as they all exploded too. He used his power to rewind time. He waited for the stands to leave the knives.
When they did, his stand threw one of the knives at one and destroyed it. Then, he remembered his weakness as he stopped rewinding time. He felt all the pain they caused him at the same time. "I understand your stand now. All your strengths and weaknesses. Pretty interesting" said one of the Blinding Lights. Jordan realised one of them was just about to enter the handle of the bloody knife he threw. As quick as he could, he ran the faucet to wash it off the handle in the disposal. Before he could run the disposal, it slipped through the cracks of the disposal. Next to the sink was one of them, and it exploded in his face. The stand taunted him. "What was your plan here? You washed off the killer's fingerprints. You didn't even turn on the disposal in time. You look badly injured. One more explosion and you'll probably be knocked out, and probably die of blood loss. There also happens to be only one more of me. What's your final move?" Jordan found the door to his grandfather's basement. He ran downstairs and found a knife, but the pipe coming from the sink was broken.
The water was still running and was flooding the basement. It washed off the knife. He remembered just before he died his grandfather had to call someone because the hole was the size of a hand. He dropped to his knees and looked at the knife. "Just kill me." Blind Lights laughed. "You finally get it. You're hopeless against me. Too bad it took you too long to realize it." It went into the basement. The continuous stream of water made it even faster. He was about to apprehend his target when… he went backwards. Then, he realised it. Jordan was using his stand's hand to reverse the flow of the water. He turned around. "I said come at me! What's wrong? I thought you couldn't be stopped!" The water pulled Blinding lights quickly back into the pipe. He hung onto the pipe for dear life. "I…will…" it lost its grip and flowed into the disposal. It hung to the bottom of the disposal. "I will win!" It stretched through the crack into the disposal and blew up. The water washed the fingerprints back onto the knife. He picked up the knife and stopped the water from reverse flowing.
After turning off the water and garbage disposal, he drove it to the police to identify it. An hour later, they gave him the results. "The fingerprints were hard to identify since it's been so many years and they seemed to be slightly washed off, so the best we could find was that it's one of your relatives." Jordan thanked the officer. He had a lead towards the culprit.
To be continued…
Stand appearance: a small sphere with cube appendages. When it gets triggered, it's a cube with sphere appendages.
Stand abilities: Once someone enters the house it's in, 6 of them appear. The person in the house becomes the user. It can communicate telepathically with the user. It's also a hive mind. It can combine with anything the user perceives could be a clue to find the killer. Once it combines with it, it activates, and can make it explode. If the user was already a stand user, they could see it, and since the stand could be a clue towards the killer, you could activate it just by looking at it. The explosion only destroys the thing that exploded and the user. If the stand gets destroyed by anything, it automatically explodes. It's also extremely malleable, being able to slip through small cracks. Although, this could be turned against it, as it can be forced into really tight spaces.
This is an entry for the Self Destructive stands contest. If I win, I want my flair to be changed to 「Blinding Lights」 and want the next contest to be about Jojos.
I would be more than happy to answer questions and take criticism.
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2021.09.24 20:58 Waste-Dragonfruit-27 22 [M4F] looking for friends or more

HIYA ! I dont know what to really write here but i'm going to try my luck, i'm a shy person but i really like getting to know people. i usually warm up a bit after a while. I like music, Alt and indie are my fav generes, and i like reading books. although i havent been reading much latley, i'm into art/fashion and gaming sometimes. altought i dont really play that much anymore. my passions has to be animals and mental health as i am a big empath. i'm a senstive at time because of this i think i consider my self a HSP ( Highly senstive person ) been told that I’m usually the funniest person they’ve met, oh and i love cooking, and looking into getting more into baking :P
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2021.09.24 20:58 DJReenoDoolie Why is my GPA low even though my grades aren’t very low?

I emailed my Guidance Counselor and asked her if I can see my GPA, and she responded by saying I have a 2.3
I’m currently a Junior and this average left me quite confused
Throughout my entire Sophomore year, all I got were 80s and 90s, every single class was a B or above
My Freshmen year, mostly 80s and 90s, I only received 4 75s throughout both semesters, and one 65 during my second semester for Health class
Now, I get the 70s and 60s may have dragged my GPA down a little, but how come my GPA is suddenly a 2.3, which if you search online, states that you had only C’s or D’s throughout high school, when in reality my grades were mainly A’s and B’s with very few C’s and only one D for a Health Class that was only worth half a credit?
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2021.09.24 20:58 tirelessfwog Friends list inactive, looking for new friends to send gifts to! 1168 8532 0768

My friends list has gone inactive, and haven't open gifts I've sent in weeks. Ready to cycle em out for some new people who want to obsessively send each other items. Friend code in title. Accepting whoever sends requests first, I ain't picky.
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2021.09.24 20:58 bdjsbe Hair getting a little unruly, what should I do/how should I get it cut?

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2021.09.24 20:58 Training_Magazine_33 Ethernity cloud is amazing and great project

Within Ethernity CLOUD, the nodes are location agnostic, self-replicating, constantly spawning around the internet without user interaction, exactly as defined in the Ethereum compatible smart contract.
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2021.09.24 20:58 rachmaninoff85 One outfit two ways! I still think semi-fitted (the pink) is the way to go for me. I must be some type of Pure N or C

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2021.09.24 20:58 liftedup_nsfw If you live in Europe and are tired of restrictions go give Italy a shot

They have way more lax restrictions on scooters. Barely any. You can zoot around there without fear...
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2021.09.24 20:58 YourBoss-At-Work Ant-Man meets people at Baskin-Robbins. A meme video I made with Shotcut.

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2021.09.24 20:58 Lion-of-Avalon Marriage of the Sword and Sheath

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2021.09.24 20:58 iJayx TUNNELLING IS NOT TOXIC

Tunnelling is not toxic when there is 1 gen left and 4 people still alive. Had a game where I tunnelled a Claud out of the game at 1 gen which lead to a 3 kill game, after the match their entire team said I was a crybaby and toxic for doing it whilst not realising I had no chance in the game unless Claudette was out.
People do not realise that killers need to tunnel to stay in the game sometimes and that doesn’t make them “toxic” or “salty”.
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2021.09.24 20:58 thisarrit Best Tiktok Compilation of DUCATI PANIGALE V4s [2 viwes]

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2021.09.24 20:58 Environmental_Elk693 Alternative rapper from West London

Got a couple of songs on YouTube and SoundCloud and would love to know what you guys think! Just getting started I’ve got a lot more to come!
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2021.09.24 20:58 Kaneki_Xavier69 When a game won't let you explore:

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2021.09.24 20:58 trevegan Puck Off 7

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2021.09.24 20:58 abdullah_lol I am very much a 3D-Printing newbie, but I'm in high school and I made my biggest project yet, a (fully functional) screw with a thread.

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2021.09.24 20:58 TheGamerExchange What to do next at this point in the game?

I've completed all team affinity and gotten Chipper and Mookie, no Kershaw
I'm sitting at around 2 mill stubs because of some lucky pulls and investing. Do I buy a bunch of junk for Kershaw or grab the 300-400k players from RS/BR backs?
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2021.09.24 20:58 Cowboy-cactusblatt Tyler the creator showing love ❤️ 💚

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2021.09.24 20:58 alt_zancudo When should I use LDR and when should I use LDRB?

Title. Currently, I have a computer architecture course. My prof is really bad and I am finding it hard to solve some questions from the book.
My question is when should I use LDR and when should I use LDRB? Should I use LDRB only for moving the value of the ith element into a register or can LDR be used for that too?
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2021.09.24 20:58 sw1ftkill Every needs to see this

I have never lost a single fair 5 v 5 ranked game in my entire match history without someone trolling, going afk or intentionally feeding. Go ahead and look right now, the first person to actually find one will get a skin of their choice gifted by me. EVERY SINGLE GAME HAS SOMEONE TROLLING, FEEDING OR GOING AFK. I can't take this anymore...
I started the season at 200 lp masters with a pretty decent winrate, after that I got a huge forced losing streak that got me to diamond 2 with a massive negative winrate. The rank in which I started this season. Since then I've been demoted to diamond 2 13 times. Yes 13 times has my account been reset this season.
I NEED to see a proplayer play on this account, I want to see their reaction to getting an afk or inting teammate every single game. I want to see their reaction to botlane getting destroyed every single time. This is absolutely insane, how can my games be so onesided compared to everyone else. Whenever I watch a stream it BLOWS MY MIND how different my games are. Because this is how my games go: botlane is 0-4 at 5 min while jungle is 2 levels behind, jungle spams ff open 15 while botlane keeps dying under their tower.
Every single afk or feeding player is on my team, all of them, every single one of them. I have to win every game fair by destroying the nexus, meanwhile losing is the complete opposite. I have never been on a winstreak ever. Winning 2 games in 1 play session feels like winning the lottery. Please, please check it for yourself how one sided it is. Words cannot describe how rigged and disgusting my matches are. I cannot play better myself, I'm at 200% and it's getting really tiring losing every single game because botlane is 0-6 five minutes in to the game. I'm already below 100 and getting matched with diamonds, looking forward to getting my entire accounts ranked progression reset for the 14th time before the season ends.
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2021.09.24 20:58 kawhiisyourdad Drake x Benny the Butcher track has leaked

It's out there and It's fucking fire
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